Why Some Babies Are Harder to Soothe (It’s Not Your Fault)

What if your baby isn’t hard to soothe because you’re doing something wrong—but because of how they’re wired? In this episode of Little Moments, Lasting Impressions, parent coach and developmental psychology educator Bethany Heyne shares a deeply personal story from early motherhood and introduces the powerful concept of infant temperament and goodness of fit. Drawing from attachment theory, Erikson’s stages of development, and real-life parenting experience, Bethany explains why some babies are more sensitive, slow to warm up, or easily overwhelmed—and why these differences are biological, not a reflection of parenting failure. You’ll learn: The difference between easy-going, slow-to-warm, and highly sensitive infant temperaments How goodness of fit shapes early bonding and secure attachment Why responsiveness—not perfection—builds trust in the first year of life Practical ways to support your baby’s unique needs without comparison or shame How parents can care for themselves while navigating the hardest early seasons This episode is for parents who feel discouraged, overwhelmed, or quietly wondering why parenting feels harder than expected—and for anyone seeking reassurance, clarity, and connection in the early years. If you’ve ever asked, “Why does this feel so hard?”—this conversation is for you. 🎧 Listen now and download the Goodness of Fit Quick Guide linked in the show notes. https://www.thekairosbridge.com/copy-of-member-guides